The last 10 days have had moments of tears, pain, relaxation and romance. Oh, and costumes and candy too. Quite a week, right? ;)
Last Tuesday I had my surgery to remove my skin cancer. I was a little bit nervous the morning of, but all my fears quickly went to the wayside once I met with my doctor.
Dr. Rotunda basically told me that he was going to remove all my cancer and barely leave a scar on my face. It all sounded too good to be true, but I felt very confident that he was the right man for the job. And really at the end of the day--I HAD to get this taken care of. I wasn't overjoyed with the idea of a scar down my face, but I know that things can always be worse and a scar on my face was really the least of my problems.
My surgery began around 8am and was completely finished around 11:30am. Right off the bat that was wonderful news, considering that his staff told me to be prepared to be there all day! After he removed all the cancer he asked if I wanted to see my face before he began stitching me up. I told him I did and was amazed to see a hole the size of a dime on my cheek. "Won't be able to notice a scar, eh?", I thought. It seemed a little unbelievable, but I also felt a huge sign of relief knowing that the cancer was off my face. I almost felt a little relieved seeing the hole, if that makes any sense. After he diligently stitched me up he sent me on my way with an antibiotic, pain meds and instructions on how to care for the wound. He also told me not to do anything physically demanding for the next 7 days--ha! With a 3 year old and a 19 month old I tried my best with that last one :)
The first 7 days were a bit rough. It hurt a lot more than I thought it would and sleeping comfortably was very difficult. My cheek was pretty swollen the first couple days, but I faithfully changed the bandages and applied the ointment per the instructions. I had to wear a huge bandage and gauze on my face and that was actually very uncomfortable. (I hate complaining so much, but I'm trying to honestly capture the experience. :) This past Tuesday I went back to the doctor's to have a post surgery check up and to have my stitches removed. Dr. Rotunda said that my face was healing perfectly and that I had been doing a great job at taking care of the wound. He put a steri-strip on my face that protects the incision once the stitches are removed. The strip can stay on for a few days or up to a month and then will just fall off. Once it falls off I have to keep a regular band-aid on it at all times until my next appointment in December. It's been 3 days since my appointment and the strip is still on and my wound is getting better everyday! Today is the first day my cheek isn't sore to the touch and that is such a blessing!
I am so incredibly blessed to have such an amazingly supportive family around me while going through this whole ordeal. My husband and mom were with me throughout my entire surgery and my wonderful in-laws watched the kids the whole day while I was gone. They even stayed with my once I got home to help feed the kids dinner and put them to bed! My mom and sister-in-law brought dinner for us for the first two days which was beyond wonderful and helpful. I also received SO many encouraging texts, emails, phone calls, FB messages and prayers from friends near and far. I truly cannot be more THANKFUL for each and everyone of you.
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Wouldn't you know? Four days post surgery I was set to celebrate the BIG 5 year anniversary with my love. M and I had arranged to have our parents take care of the kids so we could spend two nights in Palm Desert. We had been looking forward to this trip for months and wasn't going to let my surgery damper our excitement :) I'm not even sure I can fully articulate what an AMAZING time we had. We did oodles and oodles of relaxing, swimming, t.v. watching (for those not in the know, we don't have basic cable so t.v. is a real treat for us!) window shopping at El Paseo, walking around The River and eating out at
every meal! It was dreamy. We also did lots of talking--uninterrupted! You know, I knew this before our weekend away, but I truly love that man. I love everything he stands for, I love the person he's become. I'm so thankful I married him and I realize that I am one lucky lady to have him as my husband. He is always concerned with making sure I'm taken care of and that my needs are met. We are by
no means a perfect couple, but I see that God perfectly planned for us to be together. We have been through so much over the last 5 years and are stronger and
(I think) wiser now then when we said "I do". I love growing older with him and pray that we have many, many, many more anniversaries in our future.
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| 5 year anniversary in Palm Desert! |
We wrapped up these last 10 days with one of my favorite holidays, Halloween! This year was different from the previous years, because we had two(!) trick-or-treaters. Jack made the best looking "Batman" and Lily was the most beautiful "butterfly" that you ever did see. We spent a full hour and fifteen minutes trick-or-treating and walking all over our neighborhood. Even more impressive was that Lily walked the entire time! And she looked oh-so-cute ringing the various door bells with her brother. Before we ventured out into our neighborhood we had our annual "Dinner in a Pumpkin" at my parents house and as always, my mom outdid herself with everything! Being at my parents was a wonderful kick-off to a really fun night.
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| Halloween 2012 |
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| Snuggles for baby Ella |
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| Lily and her Uncle RyRy |
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| Looking fierce Batman |
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| We stopped by Jack's god mom's too! |
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| Ready to Trick-or-Treat! |
Pretty full 10 days, huh? :P As we begin our November we have a very exciting election coming up in the next few days along with another favorite holiday, Thanksgiving. Jack and I also got Disney passes (thanks mom!!) so I foresee lots of Disney days in the upcoming month. What a wonderful time to be alive and living in the greatest nation on God's green earth. I have much to be grateful for and am looking forward to all the excitement and wonderment that November may bring. :)